For all that I’m a fan of demolishing the ridiculous notion of binary gender and have issues with people applying feminine stereotypes and social roles to me because I’m female, and that I will choose to not state my gender frequently on forms, I still get really pissed off when someone on Reddit calls me ‘sir’.
Call me dude all you want, I’m Californian and that’s a gender-neutral term in our lexicon. But ‘sir’?
Ew. No. Thank you.
(And it’s not like I’m ambiguous on Reddit, my name there is “MarySueSays”)